Relationships
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Signs you’re sabotaging love with high-value partners
High value partners are not a checklist or question of whether anyone is good enough for love. Partner value is subjective — an inner assessment. Partner value correlates with compatibility and your relationships skills —identifying, attracting, and choosing the right match for you. Your partners always want to leave? The bar has been raised too high. You…
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The killer of bad habits in love & bedroom
Why do some people break stubborn bedroom & relationship habits fast, while others take a long time? Simple. Those who break a habit fast see simplicity in their path forward.Those who don’t, see complexity. Life may not have handed you a simple matter.But complex matters can be simplified and condensed. Your thought-process jump-starts that entire…
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Why one guy gets addicted to women while his brothers & friends don’t
Addictive habits start the same — as a coping mechanism. Without thinking, most gravitate toward pleasure, even in the face of pain. One guy turns to exercise.Another turns to food.While another guy turns to women. Sometimes it’s so bad he looks for more or new flavors every month. When a compulsive habit starts, it seems…
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When his porn-use is triggering her pain
When ‘her pain’ is tied up with ‘his porn habit’ — the dynamic feels more complex. It feels personal, right? The stakes are higher. His participation and support of the porn industry can press her sensitive (painful) nerves like: Her body is saying, this is not OK; Sometimes it screams at her, to actively help…
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Book a private consultation for porn-conditioning recovery
Have you booked your private consultation for porn-conditioning recovery? We can resolve issues like: This call is only for those who: ✔️ Are an 18+ responsible adult ✔️. Dealing with a compulsive habit or insecurity related to porn-conditioning ✔️. Already know exactly why you must end this cycle ✔️. Committed to freeing yourself from the…
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3 green flags to look for before you tell them about the porn
There are so many unanswered questions before telling someone about your compulsive bedroom habit. Can they handle it?How will they react?Will they be willing to work through it with you? Ironically, worrying about the worst-case scenario increases the likelihood of it happening. If only because it causes you to delay something extremely important: What you…
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Chaos is opportunity with impulsive habits
Moments where the shit hits the fan will send addictive habits into hyper-drive. Our electricity went out-out 2 weeks after moving-in during the hottest part of the summer in Florida. That was just the icing on the cake after a couple of long, busy, stressful months. We figured it’d return within an evening, but no.…
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Where certainty is applauded and paraded —
As the answer to everything. Ironically, certainty is exactly what holds us back the most. Whether we talk about quitting porn or feeling happy in love. It sounds counter-intuitive, but certainty slows us down the most. You can still know what you desire and get it; From porn-conditioning recovery to landing the relationship of your…
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Have the conversation you’re meaning to have with the person you love
The conversation that makes you question whether you’ll still have your life partner at the end of the day: You know you have to tell them, but there’s some sort of fear or hesitation in yourself. They probably won’t like hearing what you need to say. In response, they may say, do, or feel something…