The conversation that makes you question whether you’ll still have your life partner at the end of the day:

• Maybe it’s about the secret porn consumption.
• Maybe it’s a series of risqué conversations with another. 
• Maybe it’s a difference between what you want in love.

You know you have to tell them, but there’s some sort of fear or hesitation in yourself. They probably won’t like hearing what you need to say. In response, they may say, do, or feel something you don’t like.

Regardless of how much it might hurt, give them enough space (emotionally and physically). Let them be where they are as they take in your words.

Even if it’s without you.

Steer away from blaming those you love for a relationship problem:

Accountability to oneself works wonders. Blame will take you nowhere fast.

Though you may need to say your two cents speaking up for yourself.

We’ve all been there.

The moment a person feels judged or blamed is usually the same moment they get defensive and reactive.

But empty threats are meaningless, leading no where. Empty promises also meaningless, leading no where. Deep down, you already know if it feels empty.

You don’t have to agree with their perspective or actions. You don’t have to want to stay. You don’t have to play along.

This is your chance to find out how well you really fit together on what matters to you most.

But if you never have the conversation…  You will never really know.

Whether it’s about a compulsive habit or betrayal — the longer you delay your important conversation, the more pain it will cause you both.

Talk soon,

Krystal

PS Share this with a friend so they can have the conversation too.

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