You had a spoken agreement about porn.
She held up her side.
You didn’t. 

Not the way you know you want or ought to…

The follow-up conversation with her left something to be desired.
You initiated, but it felt awkward and forced.
You tried to close the gap between you, but it fell short.

You didn’t realize you were verbally boxing around your actions without coming totally clean.

Maybe you were only dodging her because you feared you would fall short in the bedroom.

If you have already told her —
What you wish you had done, but didn’t.
There’s nothing wrong with her.
She’s beautiful, caring, and fun to be around.
She deserves better. 

Bless her heart for wanting this thing between you to work, right?

When you don’t BELIEVE you are good enough.
(Amongst others.)
You have your reasons for thinking such, of course.

But if you want her to stay and she wants to stay —
Why not let her?
Meanwhile there’s more than one way to Be Better. 

Talk Soon,

Krystal

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